Polyandry…Polyamory...Yes?...No?...Maybe?...Not yet?...
The world is coming to an end! Jokingly so… Not so long ago there was a motion tabled for South African women to have the option to marry more than one husband, polyandry is on the cards for South Africa…blasphemy! some would suggest. I was inclined to the idea of having more than one partner and by my natural human instinct I then went and seeked validation, validation from my male counter parts asking them what they thought and it’s funny how I went straight to my male friends instead of my female friends for validation of a choice that perhaps would give me some level of freedom to do what they have been doing all along and some of them secretly so…But they cheat, it’s never polyandry or polyamorous, they never ask for consent. Anyway 7 out of the 9 thought I was crazy and it’s the most stupid thing they’ve heard me say, mind you when I brought up the idea they quickly brushed it off and the conversation went straight from being about my thoughts to “If I were to ...